You’ve built a life that looks extraordinary from the outside
— and yet.
The career. The recognition. The particular kind of life that, on paper, resolves. And somewhere — quietly, between the Sunday afternoons and the 4am recalibrations — something has stopped feeling like yours. I work with a small number of women at a time. Privately.
- AUTHORThree Books · Spiegel Bestseller
- CULTURAL WORKIsabella Blow · London
- LIVED EXPERIENCESix Years Sober
- CLINICAL PARTNERDr. Nürnberger · My Way Betty Ford
The outside life is not the whole story.
You may be functioning. You may be loved. You may be respected — even admired. And still, something in you may know: this version of your life is costing more than anyone can see.
Not because anything has gone dramatically wrong. Because something has shifted — quietly, privately, in the space between who you appear to be and who you actually are.
That shift is what I work with.
Most women arrive through one of two doors. They are closer to each other than they look.
The Sober Muse Method
For the woman re-examining alcohol.
Not because it has become a problem. Because it has become a question. A 90-day private engagement — no group sessions, no recovery narrative, no one-size-fits-all framework. One woman, one mentor.
90 days · private · from €5,000
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II.Female Empowerment & Leadership
For the woman navigating identity, presence, and what comes next.
There is a particular exhaustion that comes not from doing too much, but from being someone who no longer quite fits. The container you built has stopped being the same size as you are. This is information. And it is the beginning of the most interesting work available to you.
6–12 months · open-ended · from €7,500
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Before this work became private, it was cultural.
Three published books. A Spiegel Bestseller. Years inside the fashion world at the highest level. Co-creator of People of Deutschland. Personal assistant to Isabella Blow in London.
This is not the biography of a coach. It is the foundation of a very particular kind of understanding.
Selected Partners & Collaborators
Corporate clients and project partners · 2009–2022
I am interested in the distance between how a woman appears — and how she actually feels inside her own life.
Born in Persia. Adopted by German parents. Educated in Germany and London. I have lived, from the beginning, with the question of who I am underneath the circumstances I was placed in.
Before this practice: personal assistant to Isabella Blow in London. Three published books, including a Spiegel Bestseller. Six years sober. None of that is the work — it is simply why I can sit with women who are accomplished enough to know that accomplishment is not the answer.
Which of two patterns is most alive in your life right now?
Seven questions. About four minutes. At the end, a letter — written specifically for where you are. Not a quiz. Not a quadrant. A beginning.
Private · Confidential · Always
She helped me gain clarity about my life path and clearly define my goals. What I thought was a problem with discipline turned out to be a problem with direction.
— Armina · Patent Engineer
I stopped being surprised by myself. The work wasn't a rebuild — it was the return of a woman I'd quietly stopped expecting.
— Clara · Founder · London