Private sober muse mentorship
You’ve built a life that looks extraordinary
from the outside
Private mentorship for accomplished women who are ready to feel at home inside the life they built.
Private · Confidential · By application
- AUTHORThree Books · Spiegel Bestseller
- CULTURAL WORKIsabella Blow · London
- LIVED EXPERIENCESix Years Sober
Martina Rink is a Spiegel Bestselling author and private mentor for accomplished women — working across Ibiza, Berlin, London and worldwide on identity, sobriety, and the second chapter of a public life.
The outside life is not the whole story.
You may be functioning. Loved. Respected — even admired. And still, something in you knows: this version of your life is costing more than anyone can see.
Not because anything has gone wrong. Because something has shifted — quietly, in the space between who you appear to be and who you actually are. That shift is what I work with.
Most women arrive through one of two doors. They are closer to each other than they look.
The Sober Muse Method
For the woman re-examining alcohol.
Not because it has become a problem. Because it has become a question. A 90-day private engagement — no group sessions, no recovery narrative, no one-size-fits-all framework. One woman, one mentor.
90 days · private · by application
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II.Female Empowerment & Leadership
For the woman navigating identity, presence, and what comes next.
There is a particular exhaustion that comes not from doing too much, but from being someone who no longer quite fits. The container you built has stopped being the same size as you are. This is information. And it is the beginning of the most interesting work available to you.
3–12 months · open-ended · by application
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Before this work became private, it was cultural.
Three published books. A Spiegel Bestseller. Years inside the fashion world at the highest level. Co-creator of People of Deutschland. Personal assistant to Isabella Blow in London.
This is not the biography of a coach. It is the foundation of a very particular kind of understanding.
Bestsellers
Written from inside the work.
Isabella Blow — A Life in Fashion
THAMES & HUDSON · 2010
Isabella Blow — A Life in Fashion
THAMES & HUDSON · 2010
People of Deutschland
SPIEGEL BESTSELLER · 2022
People of Deutschland
SPIEGEL BESTSELLER · 2022
Fashion Germany
PRESTEL · RANDOM HOUSE
Fashion Germany
PRESTEL · RANDOM HOUSE
Selected Partners & Collaborators
Corporate clients and project partners · 2009–2022
I am interested in the distance between how a woman appears — and how she actually feels inside her own life.
Born in Persia. Adopted by German parents. Educated in Germany and London. I have lived, from the beginning, with the question of who I am underneath the circumstances I was placed in.
Before this practice: personal assistant to Isabella Blow in London. Three published books, including a Spiegel Bestseller. Six years sober. None of that is the work — it is simply why I can sit with women who are accomplished enough to know that accomplishment is not the answer.
Which of two patterns is most alive in your life right now?
Seven questions. About four minutes. At the end, a letter — written specifically for where you are. Not a quiz. Not a quadrant. A beginning.
Private · Confidential · Always
A dear friend introduced me to Martina's Dry January Challenge. What began as an experiment quickly became one of the most significant months of my life. With Martina's support I not only completed the challenge but gained a much deeper understanding of my relationship with myself. Challenge accomplished.
Rebecca
Travel Agent & Entrepreneur
I've had a few conversations with Martina, and her energy is truly special. The topics we discuss resonate so deeply with my own thoughts — as if taken directly from my own mind. She speaks from experience and conveys profound depth. Every interaction is simply inspiring.
Harita
Manager · Automotive industry
Martina has so many wonderful attributes that it is very difficult to describe the full impact in a few sentences. She is warm, supportive, constructive and very professional — with great expertise to guide people in finding their way. Highly recommended for anyone seeking serious personal development.
Lu
Patent Attorney
The session with Martina was a thoroughly enriching experience. It was inspiring, motivating, and above all extremely effective. She has a wonderful way of helping you arrive at important realisations about yourself — in a remarkably short time.
Anja
Founder & Digital Business Consultant
My experience with Martina as a life coach was life-changing. From the very first consultation, I felt understood and supported. She helped me gain clarity about my life path and clearly define my goals. Martina's dedication is noticeable in every coaching session — she supports me in discovering my own inner strength and developing my full potential. Her voice is calming and encouraging, and every conversation offers a safe space for growth. I wholeheartedly recommend Martina to anyone seeking an empathetic and committed coach.
Armina
Patent Engineer
I genuinely recommend Martina's female empowerment coaching. I was pleasantly surprised by just how much I gained. Working with Martina was empathetic and highly professional — she addressed fears, inner blocks, and career guidance on a truly personal level. This gave me much greater clarity about my own strengths and the path ahead. I found her through Miss Germany and am very grateful for that. You can tell she puts her heart and soul into this work.
Canan Chandni Bauer
Miss Germany Community